Ever wonder what’s going on in the mind of a Medium that is communicating with the Dead? Well, I’m going to give you a glimpse of the entertaining lessons that I receive from their vibrations of wisdom… What they have to say is surprisingly amusing and enlightening. So here are some of the most interesting thoughts they have shared with me…
1. Relationships Matter, but You Matter Most.
Reading after reading Spirit (the Dead) tells me that the way we craft our relationships will be evaluated upon transition into the Spirit world. However, that does not mean that they want you to compromise your personal joy for the sake of painfully holding onto a tortured relationship. See, you matter and the relationships you hold matter, but your life, your best life lived encompass your happiness, albeit not at the expense of others’ suffering. Choose yourself before you choose your relationship and then all parties win.
2. They Know What You’re Thinking… the Good & Bad Stuff Too.
Don’t bother lying to yourself or to a Medium for that matter, because yes, Spirit will expose you when you are behaving badly. Have you ever smugly plotted something less than pleasant? Well you might want to remind yourself of who is present. It is not just your fans, but perhaps the deceased loved ones of your enemies too. You’ll notice that there’s no coincidence that your mischievous plot gets foiled; there are more eyes watching than you are even aware of. Should you be frightened, no…but that does mean that you might want to reconsider your actions, especially if they are not for your highest good.
3. You Are Never Alone and Yes, They See You F@%k!
What’s it like when you’re about to make love and you’re reminded by Spirit that you have an audience. Well, if you ask my Hubby, he’ll tell you it will either kill the mood or you’ll be giving your best impression of a celebrity porno gone wild in hopes of pleasing the crowd. Seriously… yes, Seriously! Fact of the matter is, of course the Dead see you naked, but they don’t really care. Although, I’ll tell you every once in a while, you’ll get a renegade spirit who’ll make you laugh right at that climatic moment.
4. Spirit Wants You To Fail So That You Will Ultimately Succeed.
How many times have you felt like you’re going in the wrong direction but because of obligation, fear or complacency you continue down that path? Well, that is when Spirit will “intervene” and provide you with opportunities for you to try, and try again. Insane, I know, but think about it, how many times did it take you until Spirit had no choice but to rip the carpet out from underneath your feet so that you’d redirect yourself? I bet if you would reflect, you’ll realize how important that rug burn really was.
5. Spirit Is Invested In Your Success, And That Has Nothing To Do With Material Acquisitions.
Your soul comes here to learn, and sometimes that can be messy. Yet it’s not how many times you fail or get up, it’s what you learn in the process. You know, I’ve asked Spirit time and time again, why do I need to go through “nonsense” and they give me the same response: when are you willing to learn; not exactly what I want to hear as I huff and puff at their snarky remark back to me. But what about material means, does Spirit hold those with financial prosperity to a different scale. The answer is No. They just remind us all that those individuals are working on different lessons, and you might have already succeeded at those, while others might still be a work-in-progress.
6. Life Exists After Death, Whether You Want To Believe It Or Not.
So, I’ve been told time & time again by the Dead that life doesn’t end when an individual passes. Instead, they tell me that this is when we begin to realize the life transition from one realm into another. If you’re like most people, you’ve experienced the gut wrenching, heart-breaking loss of a loved one (whether human or animal) and have had to come to terms with it in some form or another. Not an easy feat I might add. But Spirit assures me that whether you want to hear it or not, or think you’re ready to believe it or not, life does exist after death. Interesting tidbit, your loved ones tell me that weeks prior to an individuals’ passing, Helpers are aligned on both sides of the veil to prepare an individual for transition; so in essence that means that no soul will ever transition alone. I don’t know about you, but I personally find that very comforting. Think of it this way, your welcome-home committee has been pre-selected…basically, it’s like knowing that you are getting VIP treatment complete with white glove service.
7. Love Matters Most.
What else can be said, anything else would seem ludicrous. Nonetheless, you might ask yourself, what does that mean. Well Spirit tells me Love contains the Love of Self, Love of Others, Love of Community, Love of the World, Love of the Universe, One Love, Unconditional Love, Just Love. When you see, know, and become love, that’s all you’ll attract. Love doesn’t manipulate, nor does it come with conditions or a set of rules. When you embrace your heart center, free of judgment, you’ll be afforded the luxury of experiencing Love time and time again.
So, what have I learned so far… Well, Dead people have opinions, both good and not-so-good. As the Dead evolve, they remind us in almost every occasion to expect the unexpected, live with joy as our motivator and to embrace life with all its nuisances. For in the end, Love is all that matters… the rest are just lessons and it is up to you on how you choose to experience this life.
Be Bold. Be Brave. Be Spirited.